“Well, her child has begun walking at the age of two, and mine cannot even crawl!!”
Sounds familiar?
As parents, comparison to others’ children is an inevitable part of life.
But, sometimes, this comparison loop of timing every milestone leads to an unhealthy obsession. It also creates unnecessary negativity in the minds of parents.
So, are you ready to break free and get the kids’ alignment of stars into the picture, to understand them better?
Yes! ASTROLOGY!
What is astrology?
Consider it like a “cheat sheet” in the sky, to understand your kid’s personality by zodiac signs.
It is believed that during our birth, the position of the celestial bodies at that exact moment shapes our personality.
In layman terms, it is like the map formed by these celestial bodies in the sky that reflect the map of our zodiac signs through stars. Thus, shaping individual personalities!
Astrology and child behaviour
There are four main elements: fire, water, air, and earth, representing 3 zodiac signs in each one of them.
Every sign reflects the characteristics of elements it is a part of.
For instance, fire sign represents passion; water represents emotions; air represents free-spiritedness and earth represents humbleness.
Similarly, the kids falling under the zodiac signs resemble the characteristics represented under each of them!
Assessing children’s zodiac personality traits also opens up their possibility to welcome differences and help them develop at their own pace.
Astrological Forecasting for Children’s Behaviour
It is well understood that the first initial years are the most prime for children’s development.
What if you knew the tricks and tips to mold them according to their capabilities to an extent!
Wouldn’t it give them the boost to develop those potential life skills well in advance?
Let’s do our part and try to decipher children’s astrological personalities one by one in detail.
I. Fire Signs: Energetic and Enthusiastic
Representing fire, these children are spark igniters!
Indeed, superheroes! Just waiting for a chance to pounce!
So, let’s dive in to understand the personalities of each individually!
1. Aries Children(March 21 - April 19): THE DYNAMOS
Their strong will, fearlessness, and amazing leadership qualities make them very difficult to tame!
They are highly competitive, honest, independent, and determined!
If you have an Aries at home. Then congratulations!! You have an encyclopedia in progress with their never-ending “why” questions!
Caution: Defeat is not in their dictionary!
Key traits:
1. Confidence: You can notice them having an “I can do anything attitude" , despite knowing nothing about the subject!
To your amazement, they will actually accomplish it!
Their confidence makes them independent, bold, and excellent leaders. This can sometimes also be a cause for their aggressiveness and insensitivity!
2. Adventurous: They can very confidently go out exploring unknown places. Their endless curiosity and overflowing energy make them very stubborn and always up for an adrenaline rush!
3. Impatient: This complements their passion!
Imagine waiting in a line for your turn, but these kids will jump it and declare, “It is my turn now.”
And dare you stop them!
Their hot-temperedness, if triggered, is very difficult to calm down, also because of their utter bluntness!
Their impatience and impulsiveness have to be directed with optimum patience for their betterment.
Activities for betterment:
1. Encourage them into breathing exercises by making them believe they are going to get superpowers by inhaling all the air from around them to calm themselves.
2. Playing various board games, Lego, and puzzles will develop patience and teamwork in them.
3. Cook or bake with them to make them understand how patience welcomes yummy results!
4. Reading also develops patience, imagination, and focus, thus helping them tone down overambition!
2. Leo Children(July 23 - August 22): THE PRIDE LEADERS
If you witness your child throwing tantrums and rolling on the floor to fulfill their wish, then congratulations! You have a little spotlight junkie in your house!
Like lions, their personalities command respect due to their confident, charismatic, and leadership qualities.
They are loyal little humans but ensure to be in the limelight 24*7—miniature showstoppers!
Caution: Self-centredness kills teamwork!
Key traits:
1. Creative: Their dramatic trait makes them naturally imaginative, inventive, and creative.
You can surely expect a mini-spaceship carved out of a cardboard box! We can call them DIY experts!
2. Generous: They would never mind sharing anything, despite loving the special treatment!
Do not be amazed if your kid keeps asking you for a new pencil every other day.
We all know what happened there!
3. Attention-seeking: They will always go out an extra mile to seek validation by constantly asking, “Don’t I look great?” or “Am I not the best?”
Also, their endless efforts to always stand out and ceaseless melodramatic reactions could leave you puzzled at times. But do not worry; underneath all this attention-mongering is a true heart of gold, waiting to lend their life if they have to!
Although their overconfidence and self-centeredness can be a setback for them if not dealt with time!
Activities for Betterment:
1. Motivate them into group projects and group play time for them to learn patience.
2. Encourage them to meditate by telling them to close their eyes and imagine they are on a magical adventure. This helps in slowing their constant need for validation.
3. Engage them in creative DIY crafts, painting, and different role plays to let them channel their dramatic and creative energy.
4. Encourage them to do charity work. This will help them balance their self-centredness.
3. Sagittarius Children(November 22 - December 21): THE ADVENTUROUS EXPLORERS
If your tiny tot is always curious to get into that one dark room, despite your constant refusals, then you have a little Dora, the explorer, in your home!
They are born explorers and wanderers who want to discover all the unknown places on planet Earth and beyond. This makes them truly playful, independent, and fearless.
They learn the best through fun and free-spiritedness.
Their ever-brimming excitement and risk-taking optimism often tend to make them a little impatient and sometimes reckless in their actions.
Caution: Impulsiveness leads to hastiness, and that in turn may lead to regret!
Key traits:
1. Optimistic: Their “I know it is tough, but I can do it” attitude makes them amazing seekers and opportunity grabbers!
They believe in the impossible because of their high imagination and their effortlessness for new challenges.
Optimism in Sagittarius is a way of life, and they always believe that the best is yet to come, showing their true resilience!
2. Honest: A Sagittarius would always speak their heart out despite the elephant in the room—especially if the elephant is in the room!
They do not believe in white lies and always hit the bullseye when asked for their opinions!
Next time, if you would like an honest opinion on something, do ask your little Sagittarius and brace yourself too because gentleness is not in their dictionary!
3. Restless: Sagittarius are like GPS! Always searching for a new position to explore and ready to inflate and fly across the oceans, if they could!
They are always waiting for “what now?” as settling down for them is just like the rabbit’s rest in the race!
Activities for betterment:
1. Boost their adrenaline rush by having weekend road trips or backpacking adventures.
2. Channelise their energy by engaging them in fun outdoor activities like rock climbing, nature exploration, pebble collection, etc. This will help calm down their restlessness.
3. Encourage them to journal their thoughts and experiences to satisfy their story-telling skills. This will also enhance their communication and language skills.
4. Expose them to new activities or games every now and then to tame their restlessness.
II. Earth Signs: Practical and Reliable
“Let’s be real” is their way of life!
They are goal-diggers who always have a blueprint of their actions and plans in mind before they conclude.
Earth signs are fewer words and more actions!
If they say, “I have got this," you had better not doubt them!
Let us decipher each of them in detail.
4.Taurus Children(April 20 - May 20): THE RELIABLE DREAMERS
“If it requires me to rush, sorry, I am not doing it. What is the hurry?”
They will forever negotiate snack time like diplomats, but with a plan!
Comfort and Taurus are synonyms!
They are like cuddly bears, always up for hugs with patience of a saint and laziness of a sloth!
Dare you underestimate them because you will be amazed at how resourceful they can be? All they require is a comfort cocoon!
Caution: No-rush attitude leading to delays!
Key traits:
1. Patient: The tortoise in the race with the rabbit was undoubtedly a Taurus!
While all the others around are huffing and puffing, you will always find a Taurus relaxing and snacking themselves with glee, but with a blueprint in their minds!
Patience is their superpower, but with a yummy treat while they wait!
2. Determined: When a Taurus has something on their minds, they will not only plan the entire project but also bring snacks for the whole group!
They are like gardeners, who will not only sow the seed but also patiently wait for it to snack on them! They would not budge until they got that tree to grow out!
3. Stubborn: If you wish to change their opinion on something, then the chances are like a dust storm in Antarctica! So, better luck with that!
Once they have a heart set on something, get ready to move a full-fledged, firm rock in the flowing river!
Activities for betterment:
1. Encourage them to use planners or time management tools to assess their timeliness for targets to help them address procrastination.
2. Indulge them into mindful cooking and eating to relish their never-ending craving for good food to give them a sense of satisfaction.
3. Engage them in any physical activity like swimming, dancing, badminton, etc. to keep them active and beat their laziness to an extent.
4. Promote journaling to let them keep track of their goals and setbacks for reflection.
5. Virgo Children(August 23 - September 22): THE CRITIQUE-O-SAURUSES
This is the only sign that can meticulously arrange their books and even solve the hunger crisis in the world at the same time!
They are highly meticulous and overly self-critical and judgemental!
Beware of their tendency to organize your life without your permission!
If you are confused with something, asking a Virgo could always be timesaving because of their neat and detailed analysis of all the pros and cons already at hand!
Caution: Self-criticism leads to self-doubt!
Key traits:
1. Analytical: “Let me calculate how many chocolates each of us will get before we share.”
They want to calculate all the permutations and combinations before they seek out results.
“Why guess when we can just collect and analyze the entire data?”, is their go-to dialogue for life!
Having a Virgo at your home means meticulous analysis of everyone’s plan in action and throwing judgements!
Also, be ready for all the witty commentary for life!
2. Helpful: “I can do that for you. Let me find out the best options.”
Stuck in a dilemma? Ask a Virgo!
They are always up for helping others because of their overstimulating tendency to analyze, plan, and even create blueprints to land on Mars!
3. Perfectionist:“ Can I use a ruler? I want my lines to be perfectly straight!”
They always have the tendency to spend extra hours on assignments and homework or even their play space for it to be just the perfect they want!
Yes! They not just seek perfection but perfection according to their own whims and fancies!
Their over-perfectionism can sometimes lead to their mental breakdown due to their over-criticism.
Activities for betterment:
1. Engage them in creative activities like paintings or sketching with raw fingers to balance out their attention to detail. This can also help them understand that sometimes disorderliness is beautiful too.
2. Their love for fitness can be harnessed by indulging them in some physical activities. This will also help them understand teamwork.
3. Developing reading habits can help them polish their critical thinking skills.
4. Practicing meditation through fun activities can help them soothe and calm their perfectionism, over judgment, and self-criticism.
6. Capricorn Children(December 22 - January 19): THE WORKAHOLIC WIZARDS!
If you have a little Capricorn at your home, then get ready for some discipline, organization, and practicality!
“Why so serious?” – does gel with capricorns!
They always make sure to complete the priority task at hand with absolute detailing before having a fun pastime!
Caution: Seriousness leading to burnout!
Key traits:
1. Responsible: “I can’t eat until I finish cleaning up my room.”
Capricorn children always seek a far-sighted vision and are highly meticulous in planning even a small playdate.
Organization and Capricorns are siblings!
Yes! Perfection defines it!
2. Ambitious: Their never-give-up attitude will sometimes amaze you!
They will not settle until they have achieved their goal. They are very resilient and determined, no matter what the cost! Sometimes, they have to be slowed down!
Capricorns have the tendency to build a fort of dreams of a rock band and music concerts all around the world while learning guitar just for fun!
Sometimes, this might also lead to pessimism due to overexertion!
3. Domination: “I am the captain, and everyone has to follow my rules!”
Their leadership, confidence, and goal-orientation qualities can sometimes make them dominating!
This can often lead to dictatorship, which might even impact their healthy social and relationship skills.
Activities for betterment:
1. Encouraging a balanced work-play schedule to help them learn flexibility.
2. Motivate them to play and work in groups to learn teamwork and adaptability.
3. Encouraging them to pursue charity work enhances their leadership skills.
4. Learning musical instruments, painting, drawing, etc. can help them channel their discipline and seriousness into a creative pursuit.
III. Air Signs: Intellectual and Communicative
Where conversation soars high and wit and charm take a creative twist is what defines these zero-gravity humans.
Just like the air cannot be caught, and so does pinning down the air sign!
Let’s explore their freshness in detail.
7. Gemini Children(May 21 - June 20): THE CURIOUS CHAMELEONS
This duo dynamo defines adaptability, wit, and charm!
They are highly curious and talkative, but wait! They are also very good readers, which makes them witty chatterboxes!
Caution: Fickle-mindedness leading to unpredictability.
Key traits:
1. Curious: “Why this and not this?”
The “why” factor makes them intelligent because they just cannot seem to accept opinions unless they have dug deep and reached the core of the subject!
Curiosity and restlessness are a deadly combination to explore the unknown!
If their curiosity is tamed right, who knows if they end up making a rocket to an alien galaxy!
2. Adaptable
Their good communication and social skills make them highly adaptable and admirable.
3. Indecisive
“Oh wait! Let's go there. No…there!, actually both!”
Their multi-tasking skills and adaptability might sometimes also lead to their indecisiveness. It should be addressed to avoid future blunders.
Activities for betterment:
1. Encourage them to read, draw, paint, and participate in many debates and writing competitions to enhance their communication, social, and creative skills.
2. Motivate them to practice meditation and journaling to calm down their restlessness and indecisiveness.
3. Let them explore different activities to prevent them from boredom.
4. Team-building activities like sports, group projects, etc. can also enhance their social skills.
8. Libra Children(September 23 - October 22): THE ACCOMMODATORS
"Oh, no worries! I will do that later; let me help you out.”
They are very fair-minded and helpful.
If you have a Libra in your home, try not to admire them!
Challenging right?
Little peacemakers, aren’t they?
Caution: Being pushovers can lead to their manipulation.
Key traits:
1. Charming: Yes, you read that right! They have the capability to charm you off your feet!
“Let’s take chocolates for everyone in the classroom.”
Do not be surprised if your kid is always up for social service!
They are natural people-pleasers, which also makes them social, cooperative, and idealistic.
2. Diplomatic: Being a people-pleaser, your little one would always try to avoid conflict and mediate for peace.
They are bosses in creating a hospitable environment!
Uncomfortableness is never in their company!
3. Indecisive: Their tendency to be easily manipulated can sometimes lead to their indecisiveness.
They have to be taught to take a firm stance when required, or they may suffer from dissatisfaction in the future.
Activities for betterment:
1. Play various puzzles, treasure hunt, etc. to improve their decision-making skills.
2. Engage them in group activities to enhance their social interaction and communication skills.
3. Develop a habit of reading in them to enhance their diplomatic skills.
4. Motivate them to plan out a priority list and complete them while also helping others. This will help them understand balance.
9. Aquarius Children(January 20 - Febraury 18): THE SOCIAL VISIONARIES
If your kid is always ready to organize a mini-fundraising activity to save a homeless animal, then you are absolutely dealing with an Aquarius!
Their sense of social responsibility, empathy, and concern for others make them very friendly and humanitarian!
They are also great team players due to their adaptability and open-mindedness!
Caution: Overdependence can lead to their isolation.
Key traits:
1. Independent: “Thanks for the help, but I will do it myself.”
You might often notice them figuring out even the most challenging things by themselves. This also makes them explorers. Also, making them emotionally distant at times.
They value self-directed learning over guided instructions to also boost their curious souls!
2. Innovative: If your little one accumulates every other item you want to discard, then behold!
After some time, you might notice one of the best recycled wonders, which they made from scratch!
Their curiosity, vision, and analytical skills boost their innovation!
3. Unpredictable:
Imagine relaxing on the garden bench with your little Aquarius, and they come up with all the weird ideas and fantasies!
Do not worry!
Let them explore everything they desire because it will shape their creativity and vision!
However, ensure their unpredictability remains in control.
Activities for betterment:
1. Engage them in various group discussions and group playdates and school projects to enhance their teamwork skills and emotional intimacy.
2. Motivate them to volunteer for various humanitarian causes.
3. Encourage them to pursue creative activities like painting, writing, drawing, etc.
4. Practicing meditation can help them channelise their indecisiveness and unpredictability.
IV. Water Signs: Emotional and intuitive
Being associated with water, they tend to be very emotional, caring, and self-sacrificing.
They can actually sniff sadness from a mile away!
Available?
Yes, almost always for their loved ones!
Let's swim through each of the water signs to understand them better.
10. Cancer Children(June 21 - July 22): THE COMPASSIONATES
If you have a Cancer kid, then loneliness will certainly shoot out of the window!
Every time a cancer senses some disappointment around them, they are ever ready to lend their ears, shoulders, napkin, and even their heart, for that matter!
Caution: Oversensitivity leading to their emotional and mental breakdown
Key traits:
1. Nurturing: Do not be surprised if your cancer kid is going around in circles hugging every soul he senses is sad!
It is something natural to them. You can call it their sixth sense because of them being great empathizers!
2. Sensitive: “I really hope you do not mean it, as that was very hurtful.”
You might often notice them being very sensitive to even small criticisms due to their great sense of understanding deep emotions.
After all, the person who is always available for others would also expect the same! Wouldn’t they!
4. Moody: Their healing and nurturing nature often makes them discard their emotions, thus becoming very unsatisfied and moody.
One minute you see them cheering, the other moment they will be sad!
Do not panic!
It's time someone lends them an ear too!
After all, a healer also needs to be healed, right?
Activities for betterment:
1. Encourage them to participate in various competitions like drawing, writing, etc. to help them understand independence.
2. Motivate them to practice meditation or a physical activity to boost their emotion and mind.
3. Engage them in some volunteer work to enhance their empathy building.
4. Watching movies and playing with them help them develop healthy boundaries.
11. Scorpio Children(October 23 - November 21): THE THOUGHTFULS
These kids might often surprise you with their reading-in-between-the-lines skill.
They are great observers, which also makes them highly intuitive to recognise deception. They are also huge secret-keepers!
Their determination and passion fuels their intense vision and complex, yet balanced personalities.
Caution: Jealousy leading to insecurity and, thus, isolation.
Key traits:
1. Passionate: Their attention to every minute detail makes them very passionate.
“I lost track of time while reading this book.”
Do not be surprised if they spend hours inside their room creating a masterpiece!
2. Resourceful: You will notice they will always have a solution to their broken possessions, be it their toys, stationary, bicycle, or even their lives.
They can be called recycling experts!
Be it gardening, DIY, inventive recipes, or even knowledge sharing, you can always count on a Scorpio!
3. Intense: Their intensity can sometimes be overwhelming due to their overindulgence in minute detailing.
This might also end up making them obsessive, competitive, controlling, and jealous!
Activities for betterment:
1. Motivating them for DIY will enhance their creativity.
2. Their intensity can be pacified through practicing meditation and playing sports that keep the mind occupied, like badminton, lawn tennis, etc.
3. Engaging in teamwork activities will relax control issues in them.
4. Encouraging them to volunteer for social activities will help them develop empathy.
12. Pisces Children(February 19 - March20): THE MYSTICS
“My Teddy seems to be feeling sad as we left him behind.”
If you ever encounter such mystical dialogues from your child, then do not worry, it is in their nature to look at the world through magic!
They are highly intuitive and spiritual, which also makes them great empaths.
Their peacemaking nature also makes them idealists.
Caution: Unrealistic expectations leading to disappointments.
Key traits:
1. Imaginative: Their innate tendency to look at the world through a different lens makes them highly imaginative.
Get ready for some imaginary friend storytelling, their vivid imaginations, and quirky playtimes; all with an essence of magic in it!
2. Empathetic: Their compassion and kindness make them empathetic.
You might always find your little Pisces trying to make everyone happy around you with their heartwarming soul and optimism.
3. Dreamy: Their dreaminess fuels creativity and imagination. However, care must be taken before it slips into escape from reality.
They have a tendency to do so due to their constant mind wandering skills!
Activities for betterment:
1. Ensure they stay connected to reality by giving them an outlet to showcase their dreamy adventures through painting, writing, theater, etc.
2. Journaling can help them create a healthy boundary between real and imaginary.
3. Encourage meditation to keep them grounded to reality.
4. Spending time in nature can help them enhance their imagination.
Conclusion
Although astrological forecasting for assessing children’s behaviour can forge a pathway for building their essential skills, zodiac sign compatibility for kids shouldn’t be followed blindly.
Astrology is a very vast subject, and just a few characteristics cannot define humans.
Disclaimer: Linking children’s personalities and star signs may not always reap guaranteed results. Every child is special, and thus, they should be given an opportunity to flourish according to their strengths and weaknesses.